What is it with marriage proposals at concerts?
Maybe I just don't get it. Maybe it's me. I mean, I'm sentimental and all, but I just don't get why someone would take their most intimate moment and put it on display for hundreds or even thousands of people. But that's what I've seen now, 3 times in the past half year: Men taking time out from the middle of a concert -- twice on stage and once from the audience -- to propose marriage. The first time was last September 10, in Asbury Park, New Jersey. I was there for the weekend, for the Springsteen symposium . The first night, I went with a few friends on a pilgrimmage to the Stone Pony to see Joe Grushecky . I'm not much of a Grushecky fan, really, and his following is rather modest -- though perhaps it's a bit more down on the shore, where his Springsteen connection helps. Here are my notes from the show: "Got to the Pony about 11pm, just in time for Grushecky. He was...Grushecky. Eventually Mary and I headed out to the outside area, I t...